Bad Advice

Terrible Advice

Why “Just Get a Better Job” Is Terrible Advice

Whenever someone says they’re struggling financially, the response shows up immediately:

“Just get a better job.”

It sounds simple.
It sounds logical.
It sounds motivating.

It is also one of the most out-of-touch, lazy, and useless pieces of advice people give.

Not because better jobs don’t exist — but because pretending they’re easily accessible ignores reality entirely.


The Phrase That Ends the Conversation

“Just get a better job” isn’t advice.

It’s a conversation stopper.

It shuts down nuance, context, and actual problem-solving. It turns a complex system into a personal failure and walks away feeling helpful.

It assumes:

  • Better jobs are everywhere
  • Everyone qualifies
  • Hiring is fast
  • Pay increases solve everything

None of that is consistently true.


Better Jobs Aren’t Sitting Around Waiting

If “better jobs” were easy to get, people would already have them.

The reality:

  • High-paying roles are competitive
  • Many require years of experience
  • Others require credentials people can’t afford
  • Some only exist in certain locations

Telling someone to “just get a better job” ignores:

  • Geography
  • Industry saturation
  • Age bias
  • Gatekeeping
  • Timing

Opportunity isn’t evenly distributed — pretending it is doesn’t help anyone.


Hiring Is Slow, Brutal, and Demoralizing

Job searching today isn’t walking into an office with a résumé.

It’s:

  • Hundreds of applications
  • Automated rejections
  • Ghosting
  • Multiple interview rounds
  • Skills tests
  • “Culture fit” nonsense

People don’t stay in bad jobs because they love suffering.

They stay because leaving is risky — financially, emotionally, and mentally.


“Better” Is Relative (And Temporary)

Let’s say someone does get a “better job.”

What happens next?

  • Costs adjust
  • Expectations increase
  • Workloads expand
  • Stress multiplies

That better job often becomes:

  • The new barely-enough
  • The next burnout
  • Another temporary fix

Without systemic change, “better” just means less bad for now.


Not Everyone Can Climb Forever

The advice assumes infinite upward mobility.

But here’s the uncomfortable truth:
Not everyone can move up at the same time.

If everyone gets a better job:

  • Entry-level roles still exist
  • Essential jobs still need workers
  • Someone still gets underpaid

The system relies on people staying where they are — but shames them for it anyway.


Education Isn’t the Golden Ticket It Was

Another version of the advice:

“Go back to school.”

School costs money.
Time costs money.
Debt costs future money.

Degrees don’t guarantee pay anymore.
They guarantee eligibility to apply.

Many people did everything they were told — and still landed in underpaid roles with debt attached.

That’s not a personal failure.
That’s a broken promise.


Life Doesn’t Pause While You Upgrade

Advice ignores timing.

You can’t:

  • Pause rent
  • Delay groceries
  • Skip healthcare
  • Freeze responsibilities

While you “just” get a better job.

People need income now — not after six months of job searching and hope.


The Advice Blames Individuals for Structural Problems

“Just get a better job” places responsibility entirely on the worker.

It avoids uncomfortable truths:

  • Wages are suppressed
  • Benefits are eroded
  • Costs outpace pay
  • Stability is rare

It’s easier to tell someone to try harder than to admit the system isn’t built for fairness.


It Also Ignores Burnout

People are tired.

Not “had a long week” tired.
System-level tired.

Burnout makes:

  • Learning harder
  • Risk scarier
  • Change overwhelming

Telling exhausted people to reinvent their lives without support isn’t empowering — it’s dismissive.


When Advice Becomes Judgment

The phrase often carries an unspoken message:

“If you’re struggling, you must be doing something wrong.”

That judgment:

  • Kills honesty
  • Discourages asking for help
  • Creates shame instead of solutions

Most people already feel behind.
They don’t need confirmation.


What Would Actually Help Instead

Better advice sounds like:

  • “What skills do you already have?”
  • “What options exist right now?”
  • “How can you reduce risk while improving income?”
  • “What’s realistic given your situation?”

Progress doesn’t come from slogans.
It comes from strategy and patience.


Why Side Hustles Even Enter the Conversation

Side hustles didn’t rise because people love them.

They rose because:

  • Jobs stopped paying enough
  • Switching jobs became risky
  • Flexibility became survival

They’re not magic.
They’re not easy.
But they’re often more accessible than “better jobs.”


UglyBrokeSmelly’s Take

We don’t believe in telling people to:

  • Grind harder
  • Bootstrap endlessly
  • Pretend opportunity is equal

We believe in:

  • Honest assessment
  • Realistic paths
  • Incremental improvement
  • Survival without shame

No empty phrases.
No moralizing struggle.


Final Thought

If “just get a better job” actually worked, nobody would be saying it anymore.

People don’t need slogans.
They need options.

And until those options exist at scale, blaming individuals for systemic pressure isn’t helpful — it’s lazy.

Welcome to UglyBrokeSmelly, where we stop pretending simple answers solve complex problems.

Share this with your friends

admin

Share
Published by
admin

Recent Posts

Dwayne The Rock Johnson

Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson: Smiles, Muscles, and Movie Magic Move over Hollywood, there’s a man…

8 hours ago

Travel Hacks So Strange They Just Might Work (And Probably Will Make People Stare)

Travel Hacks So Strange They Just Might Work (And Probably Will Make People Stare) Traveling:…

9 hours ago

Weird Office Hacks That Will Actually Make You Look Smart (Even When You’re Not)

Weird Office Hacks That Will Actually Make You Look Smart (Even When You’re Not) Ah,…

9 hours ago

TikTok Trends

TikTok Trends Blowing Up Right Now: Challenges, Hashtags, and Viral Moments You Can’t Miss Introduction…

9 hours ago

Bathroon Hacks

Bathroom Tricks That Will Make Your Life Cleaner (Or Messier) Ah, the bathroom—the one place…

10 hours ago

7 Great Kitchen Hacks

7 Kitchen Hacks That Will Save Your Food (Or Burn Your House Down) Ah, the…

10 hours ago